in response to jaj...Kajala, darling. Congratulations. It is going to be extremely hard because you are so very young yet. If you can go by the simple fact that it's no longer about you anymore, but it's about your child you will be fine and you will start making great choices. You have to want to take initiative to be a great mother. Don't smoke, do drugs, or drink alcohol(which is a drug too). I am sure you don't but I feel compelled to say so any way. Keep your head up! Not everyone is able to have children. We are so lucky to have them. To me, life is incomplete if we don't have our kids. You better listen to your grandma, and respect her so very much. Don't ever dismiss her advice as she has been there, and done that! Take care, don't be in a rush to live, embrace your baby, and let him or her enrich your soul. Your baby was meant to be in YOUR life. Don't take anything for granted.Let me know when you have the baby and how things are going. Luck has nothing to do with it. Be good okay.
Hi there everyone and anyone whom hopefully can help me. I am a mother of three and my husband just lost his job and I do not work because of the kids. We have been having trouble with our only family car and I was hoping to find a program in the bay area that can help fix my car or get a new one. I need to be able to take the kids to school, they are starting the 22nd of August. I need to have a reliable car. Where can I go, who can help me in the bay area (Fremont CA area). Thank you kindly.